subtlety in seduction

do men find sexually aggressive women attractive?
or are we still meant to hold back and play these games and be hard to get, thus upping the basis of our appeal?

i made out with someone recently. compared with my voracious appetite, his style was more subtle. which made it all the more seductive. generally i find men respond well to my enthusiasm for sex, though i have noticed that british and european men take it down a few notches compared with american men.

subtlety in seduction is a fine artform. one which, compared with, say, the british and the french women, i know i lack. if i want something, i want it now. patience as a virtue is loss on me (not to mention lacking).

the thing is i never mastered this way of behaving. i've tried. it's human nature to want what you can't get, but in general if i'm attracted to someone, i want them then and there. which is great if they feel the same, but most vexing if they don't.

then again i do get bored easily, so maybe learning to hold back a little can't hurt...